Problem solved!
Nice link, but that wasn't the problem at all. My Philips DVD+r(w) aren't the problem and just OK
With kind help from the people of mycom.nl, we dropped down the problem. Windows 7 don't accept IDE (ata) burners. So no matter what software I will use, I will always get an error.
So the only solution to this problem, is to buy a new burner (e.g. LG GH24NS90) which can only be connect with sata, but therefor I should also put in a PCI card to get extra sata ports, because the two on my P4P800 already in use by my SSD and sata HD. Or to decide to look out for a other PC, less older.