thx for the welcome and the quick answer.
I did try it on lower speeds also, didn't try to update the firmware since it never been a problem before.
i just updated to Ashampoo Burning Studio 8 version 7, know if there is any conflicts?
and i put in my old drive now trying to test if its my dvd drive that's about to die
Ok it finished fine with the other drive, im gonna update the firmware and see if it helps