ok got it to work and it stops 38% now hers the log
the speed rate gos down to 0.0x and it will keep on
I 16:05:06 Source File Sectors: 3,827,488 (MODE1/2048)
I 16:05:06 Source File Size: 7,838,695,424 bytes
I 16:05:06 Source File Volume Identifier: DVD_ROM
I 16:05:06 Source File Volume Set Identifier: ec67c000MS UDFBridge
I 16:05:06 Source File Application Identifier: CDIMAGE 2.45 (12/06/2000 TM)
I 16:05:06 Source File Implementation Identifier: Microsoft CDIMAGE UDF
I 16:05:06 Source File File System(s): ISO9660, UDF (1.50)
I 16:05:06 Destination Device: [1:0:0] Optiarc DVD+-RW AD-7230S 102B (D:) (ATA)
I 16:05:06 Destination Media Type: DVD+R DL (Disc ID: RITEK-S04-66) (Speeds: 4x, 6x, 8x)
I 16:05:06 Destination Media Sectors: 4,173,824
I 16:05:06 Write Mode: DVD
I 16:05:06 Write Type: DAO
I 16:05:06 Write Speed: 2.4x
I 16:05:06 Link Size: Auto
I 16:05:06 Lock Volume: Yes
I 16:05:06 Test Mode: No
I 16:05:06 OPC: No
I 16:05:06 BURN-Proof: Enabled
W 16:05:06 Write Speed Miscompare! - Wanted: 3,324 KB/s (2.4x), Got: 5,540 KB/s (4x)
I 16:05:06 Book Type Setting: N/A
I 16:05:06 User Specified L0 Data Zone Capacity: 1,913,760
I 16:05:17 Set L0 Data Zone Capacity Succeeded!
I 16:05:17 Filling Buffer... (40 MB)
I 16:05:18 Writing LeadIn...
I 16:05:21 Writing Session 1 of 1... (1 Track, LBA: 0 - 3827487)
I 16:05:21 Writing Track 1 of 1... (MODE1/2048, LBA: 0 - 3827487)
I 16:05:21 Writing Layer 0... (LBA: 0 - 1913759)